the last time, really


This is the last excerpt I have to share with you from the last school paper…probably:
Another of Hofstede’s values that illustrates the difference between the United States and Argentina is the individualism score, which is 91 and 46, respectively.
Individualism is the one side versus its opposite, collectivism, that is the degree to which individuals are integrated into groups. On the individualist side we find societies in which the ties between individuals are loose: everyone is expected to look after him/herself and his/her immediate family. On the collectivist side, we find societies in which people from birth onwards are integrated into strong, cohesive in-groups, often extended families (with uncles, aunts and grandparents) which continue protecting them in exchange for unquestioning loyalty (Geert-hofstede.com).
This reflects the deeply individualistic society found in the United States (91) compared to the extended family ties found in Argentina (46), which translates into the feeling that being part of a group is more meaningful than individual endeavors. The extended family expects to care for each other’s children and the elders as part of the family structure, indeed, elders are an important component of the family and in Argentina, it is the norm to greet the oldest person in a group first out of respect. Surprisingly, scores for power distance, or “the extent to which the less powerful members of organizations and institutions (like the family) accept and expect that power is distributed unequally” (keithley.com), are similar between the two countries, with America at 40 and Argentina at 49 (Geert-hofstede.com).



finally done with this term


I got all ‘A’s, naturally. Here is an excerpt from my sociology paper:

A 2010 blog post by an author using the pen name of Cosmetologist07, who is a relative of a doctor in Argentina, has this to say about the wealth inequity in that country:
“Argentina is definitely not poor, but many people are. The country has immense riches: the land (agriculture), precious metals, even petroleum. And after Canada, one of the biggest water reserves of the world. BUT with the corruption… sigh. What can I tell you? All these riches… they often don’t reach the people. A few, mostly politicians, living the great life: boats, BMWs, mansions, their own airplanes all paid by the taxes… and then lots of people poor, so poor, they barely have enough to eat. Doctors at public hospitals having to bring in a big pot from home to boil their instruments in (my uncle is a doctor and he did). Teachers on a hunger strike because they haven’t been paid for 4 or 5 months. All this in this rich, rich country. What a shame” (Cosmetologist07).
No wonder Argentinians have an exceptionally high uncertainty avoidance score.
Uncertainty avoidance deals with a society’s tolerance for uncertainty and ambiguity; it ultimately refers to man’s search for Truth. It indicates to what extent a culture programs its members to feel either uncomfortable or comfortable in unstructured situations. Uncertainty avoiding cultures try to minimize the possibility of such situations by strict laws and rules, safety and security measures (Geert-hofstede.com).
Argentina scores 86 to our 46 on uncertainty avoidance, which can be partially attributed to the economic collapse in 2001 after a ten-year economic boom, with banks closing and peoples’ savings forfeit. This was accompanied by inflation to the point that one peso would buy only $.66 worth of goods.
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I know it sounds pedantic, but I have to consider my audience, so I couldn’t make it as entertaining as I’d have liked.



phoenix yesterday


I must be getting used to the trip, it didn’t wear me out so much yesterday as before. We (Paris, Mike and I) had lunch at Mellow Mushroom Pizzeria, it was delicious. I am going back again this week sometime to shop for clothes so I don’t look like a hobo at Sammie’s wedding. I was looking for a wedding gift and found this; look at this for life insurance, which is a really good idea for a young couple starting out. Nothing says “I love you” like added security.

Sammie



Ajo economics


I have been putting personal experience to work learning sociology.
this teacher uses our own personal life to illustrate examples of sociology terms and theories. Here’s what I had to say about Ajo:
In my community there is no urban area, as I live in a very small town. The poverty I see here spans multiple generations and is rooted in the inability to move to another place because of tradition (American Indian Tribal lands, and Mexican extended familial ties spanning the border), and lack of educational opportunities among a large part of this population; these people will tell you that their people have always lived here and their ancestors are buried here, so they won’t move away to find work. Of course, that is all the more true now because there really isn’t much work anywhere else these days for the minimally educated.



Generacion Y


I am reading a book by Yoani Sanchez, a blogger from Cuba. She grew up there, excaped to Switzerland for a couple of years and for some reason returned, determined to live free in Cuba.
Ha! Fat chance, I say.
The book is called Havana Real and the blog is Generacion Y. http://generaciony.com/. It is translated into, like, 20 languages by volunteers. This is an important blog.
In comparison, my blog is a school girl’s diary.
Go there, read this, it’s really great.



I need a change of scenery


Look up at the top quarter of this page, notice that my header is all city (I was looking for a dark color), and my reality current view is going more and more rural.
That means I’m doing everything online. That’s where I’d shop for a 8gb ipod nano device, by golly. Online from anywhere…. I still feel the wow factor right now like I did when I first discovered ‘online’.
I wonder if I can get a desert scene put up here for your viewing pleasure? (my son will know) It’s fun to learn how to work the software, but it takes a clear head. Maybe once I am firmly in the rural setting I can learn more about all the internet fun things that I’m using.



Final Papers


I can’t tell you how happy I am to have turned in my two papers today. I feel so buoyant, even. Here is the fairy story as it turned out.
Once upon a time Winter lived in an old woman, and her daughter was Fall. They lived near each other and they argued all the time. When Winter was angry, fields froze early and crops were lost. The year’s young in the forest; the mice and bunnies and foxes and such, had a very hard time of it when Winter was angry. When Fall was angry the wind blew all the leaves off the trees and the shingles off the roofs, and rained at harvest time.
Fall had ways to incite Winter, sometimes just by twisting words, or proving yet again that Fall was stronger, more alert, more assertive, smarter, more enlightened, and incredibly patient, seeing as how she was better in all ways than Winter. One day Winter came back to her own house and Fall was there waiting. Fall had taken up residence in Winter’s place, and the root crop wouldn’t set. The apple on the trees longed for winter to come and turn their juices to sugar, bears and lizards yearned for the cold hibernation time. This time when Winter came to her own house, Fall blew right in with a hot gust of challenging words, without even a greeting. She was very rude indeed to Winter, and it started to rain on the harvest.
Fall didn’t know it then, but Winter was already carrying heartbreak that day. Her friends, the Snow Goose family, had been through a hard Fall season because a wet harvest ruined most of their crops, so they were already counting every seed when it came time for travel to the winter home, when disaster struck in the form of an angry, freezing storm that quickly turned mud to ice, and brooded and snapped over the land. The Snow Goose family told Winter that they were planning to pack up their survivors and go somewhere more clement. Winter knew Fall was partly responsible, and she was disappointed in her daughter, that she would act so unthinkingly, because the Snow Goose family lived in nature between Fall and Winter, but Winter had to admit that her own anger hadn’t made the weather any happier either. When Winter came home saddened and cold, the first greeting she heard was from her daughter informing her of what all was wrong with Winter. It was finally just too much. She lost the will to fight.
Feeling smug to have gotten in the first blow, Fall braced herself for Winter’s snappy comeback, but it didn’t come. Fall looked for Winter’s mood, and immediately saw the change in Winter’s eyes, the old mother’s eyes registered a frailty that Fall had never seen there before. The two women stood speechless for a moment. The daughter became alarmed and stepped in to embrace her old mother, thinking she might be feverish or have some other illness, because even with the Seasons, change is the only constant, and hard winters give way to gentle winters, or long winters, or wet winters, or busy winters. Without even knowing it, Fall turns gradually into Winter. That was the very moment that Fall vowed never to argue with her mother again, but she knew she would have to quest for the key to conviviality, the key to getting along.
Now Fall apologised for her rude behavior and vowed out loud never to vex her old mother again. Winter was very surprised at first, and then when Fall persisted, Winter argued that Fall could never do such a thing for any length of time, she was incapable of it. But Fall talked gently to her and at last they both agreed that something had to be done. It was something to start agreeing on at least.
Fall and Winter went the same peaceful way for long enough to come to respect each other and to treat each other with kindness. Long busy Fall days respectfully and peacefully turned cooler, with rains after the harvest like it should be, and Winter respected Fall by creating icy ponds to reflect the leafless trees, and with clear, sunny days for skating, and enough white snow for sledding and hot chocolate. For several years, Fall and Winter had to work really hard to not argue, but soon they discovered that they were on an adventure of learning to know each other. The daughter refrained from correcting her old mother (more often than not), and the old woman softened a little, too, and soon they were actually enjoying each other’s company. The whole land breathed a sigh of relief.

I like the little tale very much, and would never have written it if it hadn’t been assigned. I’m glad I took this class.



Special Request


a friend of mine wants to see these mythology logs I have been doing for my English class, here it is, one sample log.
ENH 294
Professor Roma-Deeley

————————————- story 1

Title of Story: ‘Cow on the Roof’ p. 283

Author/Collector: Cole

Source: Best-loved Folktales of the World

Publishing Company: Text

Copyright Year: 1982

Type of Story (Genre): The text’s ‘index of categories of tales’ places this story in three categories (humorous tales, women/girls, married couples).

Ethnicity or Culture: Wales

Summary: A man who thinks his wife doesn’t keep house properly agrees to swap chores for one day and messes everything up while the wife performs his duties with ease.

Analyze the following aspects of the story:

Characters: husband, wife, household; including baby, pig, cow.

Setting: The setting is low tech and rural, indicative of a long time ago, or ‘olden days’.

Formulaic Phrases: none

Motifs: The husband learns a lesson about counting his blessings, and trusting his wife when she says it’s not that easy.



Math Test Not Too Bad


WooHoo !! I probably got a “B”, which under the circumstances (I’m way busy) is acceptable.

I forgot the camera last time, so I didn’t get pics of My Dear’s new shop. He still needs garage door hinges, the manual kind. For some reason they are hard to find.

my best geezers


Mom





Business paper in APA format


I get to use APA format citing on this next paper. I just sent my idea to the prof for approval and more hints as to what he really wants.
I’ve never used apa before, mla is what I did last term, and will again in mythology this term, so I’m pretty excited to use another type of cite software. They are pretty easy to use and create an impressive bibliography, just like I knew what I was doing.



Long week in Phoenix


It’s nice that I stayed here this week, I’m getting a lot done. Of course I didn’t bring hardly and of my urban clothing, but the washer is here, so no biggie. The weather has been perfect for someone who is walking (me), I walked to school today and put in a few hours at the math lab, so I feel especially virtuous today. I walked to CVS (quarter of a mile) and got glucosamine. It really helped my joints, so we started giving it to Annie Oakley, and she seems to be moving just fine.
It’s really hard to pick the best price, there are so many differences in doses and price, and apparently the HCL isn’t the right one. Too much thinking!



Math is fun, but


Math takes a lot of time. Maybe it’s just me, but I have to put in hours and hours just practicing the various forms of graph, line formula, factoring completing the square…. and that’s just this week! At least you don’t need a degree to look into California car insurance. But the math work is really fun if you look at it like a puzzle, I will start spending more time in the math lab at school, that’s very helpful to both getting the homework done, and studying.



MMMath


It makes me crazy, and every time I think I get it, it changes. All the good jobs require a little schooling, so it’s important, but after hitting the books hard for three days, my brain is full. Just a little more math to do tonight and I can take a break.
Today was a great lesson in looking at a formula and imagining what the graph would look like, it was kind of fun. Hope I remember how to do it when I get to the homework tomorrow.



Need Motivation


I have a perfect motive for learning this math, so it won’t be so hard! And to get a good grade.
Maybe if I had a prize waiting for every ‘A’, like us coins, or even a chocolate bar. But it seems so tedious this week, and I know I need to get this stuff into my head, sooner than later.
I only spent about an hour each day this week so far on math, and that is not enough. Maybe I’ll get better motivated after class today.



Ending to myth-style story


I am not even sure if I can get away with this assignment being a story instead of a list of questions answered, but I like the story by now and want to finish it. Here’s the ending. (rough draft):

Fall and Winter went the same way for the whole time of the quest. Long busy Fall days respectfully and peacefully turned cooler, with rains after the harvest, like it should be, and Winter respected Fall by creating icy ponds with clear, sunny days for skating, and enough white snow for sledding and hot chocolate. For several years, Fall and Winter had to work really hard to not fight, but soon they discovered that they were on an adventure of learning to know each other. The daughter refrained from correcting her old mother (more often than not), and the old woman softened a little, too, and soon they were actually enjoying each others company. The whole land breathed a sigh of relief.



Looking for a University


It’s becoming apparent that it will be a very expensive endeavor to finish out my Bachelor’s degree. Even if I decide on online business degrees, I will still need to come up with a pocketful of money.
GRRRR.
The biggest hope I have is that with my good grades I will get scholarship funding somehow to help with the expense.
Even if I don’t get scholarships I will have to complete the BA, I need to do this for my own self.



Personal Myth, rough draft part 1


Once upon a time there lived an old woman and her daughter who argued all the time.
One day, even before she had said ‘Hello”, the daughter darted right in with a sharp accusation, or harsh word, and braced herself for the sting of rebuttal. But instead she instantly saw a frailty rise in her old mother’s eyes that she’d never seen before. The two women stood speechless for a moment. The daughter became alarmed and stepped in to embrace her old mother. That was the moment the daughter vowed never to argue with her mother again.
Since that time, and this was a long time ago, remember, the two women have had an adventure of learning to know each other. The daughter refrained from correcting her old mother (more often than not), and the old woman softened a little, too, and soon they were actually enjoying each others company.
There were times when the daughter felt she should step in to advise, correct, or argue with her mother, and she would raise her voice once again, like in the old days, but her mother’s new soft side, and the friendship they were forging always sweetened the moment just in time, before anyone’s feelings got hurt. This was a new adventure for the daughter, she couldn’t remember a time when she’d liked her mother.



Myths Class, for English


I have to write a story about an event in my life, and I have to write it in the form of a myth, and also have a list of questions to answer while I do it. Shopping for home auto insurance before the invention of online shopping would be the only equally complicated thing I can think of.
So look for a piece of this story in the next blog entry. (Yes, I know the next entry gets put above this one, but you know what I mean.)



Our Two Hour Commute


We are getting pretty good at making the trip from Ajo to Phoenix in 2 hours. I have so much homework to do right now, I’ll probably have to stay up and do it tonight after dinner. We are having leftovers, shrimp curry and veggies. You don’t have to read sensa weight loss reviews to know that low fat is the way to go, and brown rice and veggies has got to be good for you… and me, actually.



Groovism has arrived


Here’s a new website developed by a friend of mine who believes that world peace can be achieved by drumming, meditating, making music… if only enough people can do it together at one time. That’s what his site is for. Here is some of the content.
Truths that support Groovist’s beliefs:
1: Religious belief is hardwired into our brains, through dedicated
neural machinery in the temporal lobes.
Discovery of the God Module Results in New Field of Science: Neurotheology
Saturday, April 19, 2008 by: Barbara L. Minton, citizen journalist
Michael Persinger, Ph.D., professor of neuroscience and psychology at
Laurentian University in Canada, isolated an area of neurons in the
brain’s temporal lobes that repeatedly fire bursts of electrical
activity when one contemplates God or has feelings of spirituality.
I bet you can’t wait to find the site up and read the whole thing. Who knows? This might be an answer to the world’s problems.



Math funnies


In math today we studied irrational numbers. I’m still not entirely clear, but I think it means those numbers do not make sense. I’ve seen numbers like that before, I just didn’t know math had a word for it.
My teacher, Maribeth Marquard, is very honest about this point: Unless you’re going to take calculus or some advanced math (like the engineering for building an electric muscle stimulator, for instance), you won’t need this. But it is on the test. Just one tiny little question.
But I admit to being fascinated, and if I learn it well enough to explain in a simple sentence, I will share it with you.



Proud of my Friends


I have some really remarkable friends, you know who you are.
One of my friends is constantly going to Africa to help the orphans there, it’s a huge wave of misery provided largely by the International Pharmaceutical Greed Bags. The product is available, can be produced for pennies a day, but with the patent system, the drug companies can hold out for any price they want to, and they do. The AIDS treatment drugs are effective and can make AIDS a thing you live with rather than a thing you die from. The drugs even stop the spread of new cases. So without those drugs, there are whole countries full of orphans, some of which are already infected, too. Don’t you think it would break your heart to go just once? But to repeatedly return, every time you scrape up enough money to go, that’s bravery.
Another dear friend of mine has made the brave decision to leave an abusive relationship, it hasn’t happened yet, but it’s a tough thing, the stats say that a person will try to leave six times before he or she either leaves or gets killed. I don’t think my friend is physically abused, but the mental abuse is horrible. I hope you make it, my friend, you’re brave.
I do have wonderful friends, and I value them.



Test today


My midterm for the fairy tales class was any time this week, so I just got it out of the way. I only got a C … I thought I was okay with not getting all A’s, but right now I’m pretty conflicted.

Pnut on the front step in Phoenix


The bulbs are all up and the pansies look terrific, they must be responding to the mild weather. We are thinking of getting ceiling fans for all our porches between the two houses.

Fae on the front step in Phoenix


Fae moves fast


Fae did not like to pose, and didn’t stay for a second pic.



Story Telling


I chose the Ajo Library story telling time, 10:00 on Thursday, 02/24/11. One child and her mother showed up sometime after 10:30. This child was two and a half years old and wasn’t interested in Indonesian tales or how the sun and moon got up in the sky, she only wanted to hear ‘The Big Blue Hippo’, first in English and then in Spanish. Furthermore, she wanted her mother to read to her and the library staff (2 ladies, one young and one my age) and I were left repeating colors and making animal sounds (we did this as a group), until the child had heard both versions and repeated the colors in both languages. I was impressed with her language skills, but still had not read a story.
The library staff called the school and talked to someone who decided they could round up some kids for a short story, so I walked over to the grade school and they let me tell a story to a bunch of third to fifth graders on their lunch recess. It was hard to get more than a few of them who wanted to hear a story instead of playing catch, or chase, or monkey bars, but I had seven at one point and four of the younger children stayed through three stories. They let me tell three because the first went so well and the kids wanted another. Even the recess teacher enjoyed the stories from another culture.
I explained that these were stories from another culture and asked if they could name a few fairy-tales from our culture, and they had no problem coming up with ‘Snow White’ and ‘Beauty and the ‘Beast’ and ‘Cinderella’.
At the end we talked about what the point of the story was, and the kids sort of agreed with the teacher that the bird remembered the phrase he had heard most often, which was “You say Catano or I’ll kill you!”, but the most popular theory was that the bird played a trick on the man because the man yelled at the bird.



Monkey Hat


Monkey hat for Monkey Friday


By now, this reveler has a whole monkey outfit and also, even though it not a wrestling backpack, he has a monkey backpack, too.
We take our monkey Fridays pretty seriously around here. It’s about time for another one, though this time it will be Tuesday. If I get my homework done, I’ll see if I can arrange for a day of good food, good company, and good drinks.